What aya and ọkọ actually encode, why a married woman never stops belonging to her father's lineage, the politics of co-wives, widowhood and inheritance under Yoruba customary law, and the grounds on which a woman could leave.
The Yorùbá wey dem quote, the proverbs, oríkì, ẹsẹ Ifá, word list headwords, Odù names and citations dey exactly as the corpus record dem, for every language.
Yoruba woman wey marry no stop to be daughter for her papa lineage. She get second position, as aya for her husband compound, and she keep the two position for the rest of her life. Almost everything wey dey special about the position of married women for Yoruba society come from that double membership: the power wey wife get to negotiate, the specific way wey dem take put her under authority, where she fit go if marriage scatter, and why English words like "wife" no fit describe her situation well.
This file look this institution from the position of the woman wey dey inside am. The full kinship system dey inside Kinship and the Compound and the general story about marriage dey inside Marriage and Family. The theoretical argument about whether these terms get anything to do with gender at all dey inside Gender and we no go repeat am here.
The normal way wey dem dey translate am, wife and husband, no correct for one particular way wey get serious meaning.
Ọkọ no mean male spouse. E dey call one position: person wey belong to the compound by birth, when you compare dem to person wey come from outside. Every person wey dem born enter lineage na ọmọ ilé, child of the house, and dem stand as ọkọ to anybody wey marry enter the family. That one include the daughters of the lineage. Woman na ọkọ to her brother wife, and that relationship na about seniority and authority, no be about marriage .
For that same way, aya na the name for person wey marry come in, person wey come from outside. Ìyàwó na the specific name for the bride and new or junior wife, and na the term wey carry ceremony weight.
The practical proof of this one na how dem dey call each other, and e dey well documented for normal everyday speech today, no be only for history wey dem reconstruct from precolonial times. Female relative dey call woman wey marry her relative as her wife, and woman fit call another woman as ọkọ mi, my husband . The point wey Ìkotún make about these terms na say dem need possessive qualifier before person fit understand dem at all, because dem dey describe relationship instead of person type .
So the real difference wey dey inside na insider versus outsider, and the main foundation na the lineage, no be biology. That one na real feature of the system and na wetin Oyěwùmí argument stand on.
Wetin follow am, however, no be equality. Because Yoruba lineages dey trace family through father side (patrilineal) and person must go stay for husband place after marriage (virilocal), the people wey systematically dey go out and become aya na women, and the people wey systematically dey stay and remain ọkọ na men. Na the way Insa Nolte put am this corpus follow: marriage link husband roles with power and belonging by birth, and wife positions with support and origin from outside, so even though dem exclude women from some kinds of authority, "a primarily relational understanding of gender meant that husbandly roles were frequently open to women" The two sides of that sentence carry weight. The category na relational and open. But the way people occupy am bend to one side systematically.
The clear consequence for married woman na say as she enter her husband compound, everybody wey dem born inside that compound senior her for rank, including women wey small pass her for age, and including her husband sisters, wey be her ọkọ. The everyday authority over new wife come from her husband female relatives at least as much as e come from her husband.
This one na the balance, and e get heavy weight.
Married woman still remain full member of her papa lineage with rights there: right to return, to talk make dem hear her word, to get burial there, make dem recognize her children as her papa descendants, and to inherit property from her papa. Yoruba customary law clear on this last one, and colonial courts support am early. For Lopez v. Lopez, Combe CJ rule say both sons and daughters fit inherit equally, and na that position dem follow since that time; for Salami v. Salami (1924) the court rule say woman right to inherit her papa property alongside her two brothers no reduce just because she be female . For Richardo v. Abal (1926) the court even go further and rule say if man leave two houses and two children, one boy and one girl, the senior child get the first choice to pick house regardless of sex .
That position strong pass wetin English law of that same period give daughters, and e no be by mistake: e follow from the principle say lineage membership na by birth and e no dey end because person marry.
The way the culture formally express woman return to her papa compound na ìlémọ̀sú, the status of woman wey come back to her papa house, whether after divorce, widowhood, or just for her old age, and she dey live there as daughter of the lineage instead of wife anywhere . Woman wey dey this position na ọmọ ilé, and she be ọkọ to the wives for the compound. The fact say this status dey at all matter pass how often e dey happen: married woman always get somewhere to go wey be her own by right, and her husband know this. Na this one be the real ground for whatever power a Yoruba wife get to negotiate.
This status get one modern side wey people dey drag argument on. Some modern Nigerian commentators dey argue say ìlémọ̀sú dey work to deny women wey return their full share for papa lineage property, and dem dey use the term to insult woman wey her marriage fail . This corpus take note of the argument without deciding who correct; the older ethnographic understanding and the modern critical reading of the same institution no be the same story.
Polygyny (to marry pass one wife) na the ideal, and for men wey get the money, na wetin dem dey practice. Wetin that one mean for the women inside compound, the best way to understand am na through their vocabulary, wey open mouth talk things as dem be without hiding anything.
Orogún na the name for co-wife, and na the word for the relationship between women wey marry the same man. Dictionaries dey explain am as rival wife . Yoruba no get neutral word for the relationship. The word for woman wey dey share your husband na the same word for your rival.
Ìyálé na the senior wife, the one wey first marry enter, and the seniority na permanent thing no matter how old the person be: woman wey marry enter the compound for 1960 senior woman wey marry enter for 1961 even if the second woman senior am with twenty years. Na the ìyálé dey share house work give the other wives, sweeping, fetching water, firewood and the rest, and the respect wey dem must give am na serious matter .
Three things about this arrangement get consequences wey dem document.
The seniority hierarchy create permanent rank wey no achievement fit change. The way wey junior wife take dey get respect no be through the wives hierarchy, but na to pass round am: through children, through trade, and through her own lineage.
Children na the real currency. The inheritance rule wey dey below explain the reason clear clear and in material terms.
Trade separate the wives economies. Yoruba wife dey do business on her own and she dey hold her own capital. Husband and wife no dey put money together. This one na one of the most important facts about Yoruba marriage, and na why Christian marriage, wey join husband and wife money together under the husband, cause plenty wahala; dem talk about this one for Colonial Encounter and Women's Resistance. Inside polygynous compound, e mean say the co-wives na business competitors also, with separate capital and separate creditors, dey share one husband wey each wife dey work to direct im resources toward her own children.
How Apter explain the Atinga episode depend partly on this exact thing, say cocoa economy increase the tension between co-wives and between women traders and their husbands, wey the logic of àjẹ́ already dey built to express . Accusation between co-wives na one of the standard settings for àjẹ́ accusation, wey dem treat for Àjẹ́ and Our Mothers.
Yoruba customary law of intestate succession dey run on two different methods, and to choose between them na choice about how much value wife fertility get.
Idì-igi (wey people also dey call igi kan kan) dey distribute per stirpes: dem go first divide the estate according to how many wives born children for the person wey die, then each wife share go come divide among her own children . Obilade definition na the standard one .
Orí-ojorí dey distribute per capita: each child dey get equal share no matter which wife born am .
The consequence dey direct. Under idì-igi, wife wey get one child and wife wey get six children go take the same share for their family line, so the one child go inherit six times wetin each of the six children go inherit. Under orí-ojorí, dem dey inherit equally. Jibowu J for Danmole v. Dawodu give the reason for idì-igi say e dey make sure say no wife wey born child get reason to dey jealous the others, since na the number of wives and not the number of children dey determine the sharing . Taiwo v. Lawani hold say idì-igi na well-recognised Lagos Yoruba custom, say each mother form one branch of the family for succession matter, and say e no against natural justice, equity and good conscience . Danmole v. Dawodu establish idì-igi as the default, but the family head fit choose orí-ojorí where disagreement dey .
The eldest son, the dàwòdù, dey take responsibility to manage the estate; Osborne CJ for Lewis v. Bankole (1909) hold say this one na well-established rule for Lagos and other places for Yorubaland, though e accept the chiefs evidence say wetin really matter for the role na the mental and cultural competence of the family head .
Notice wetin the mother be for this arrangement. Na her be the unit of division. Her own inheritance na separate question, and the answer bad pass that.
Yoruba widow no dey inherit her husband estate. Case law state the rule clear without ambiguity, and how Jibowu FJ put am for Suberu v. Sunmonu (1957) dey important to quote word for word because na colonial-era appellate court dey state wetin e take Yoruba custom to be:
It is a well settled rule of native law and custom of the Yoruba people that a wife could not inherit her husband's property since she herself is, like a chattel, to be inherited by a relative of her husband.
For Sogunro-Davies v. Sogunro-Davies, Beckley J give the main reason say na property devolution wey dey follow bloodline . The two justifications dey different: one say the widow na property, the other say she no be blood relation. Both of them dey produce the same exclusion.
Wetin the widow keep na right of residence. Children and wives get the right to live inside the house, and the eldest son hold am in trust for the family and no fit sell am. Widow wey marry another husband lose that right .
Three cautions as you dey read this.
The statements wey dem quote na colonial court statements of custom, wey judicial system reconstruct from African law through evidence from male chiefs and through English legal categories. Na dem be the operative law of that period and dem shape outcomes, na why dem cite them. Dem no be direct window to look precolonial practice, and this corpus no treat them like that.
The rule na about the estate. E no touch woman own property, and Yoruba woman own trading capital plenty and na her own. The widow wey lose the estate no lose her business.
And things don change. The article wey this corpus rely on for the case law note say Yoruba customary marriage don become more liberal on top wives inheritance, and e record Re Joseph Asaboro Deceased, where court appoint widow as one of two administrators of her deceased husband estate .
Di general tori na say divorce for precolonial Yoruba custom rare well-well, e rare sotey dem almost dey treat am say e no dey at all . Person suppose handle dat claim carefully. Na di standard statement for legal literature and e come mostly from testimony about custom during colonial era, wey be di same evidence chain like di widowhood rule wey dey above. Wetin clear pass na di structural reason why marriage hard to end: marriage na agreement between two lineages, no be two individuals, e involve bridewealth wey dem dey pay across years and ongoing obligations for both sides, so to break di marriage mean to untie di relationship between corporate groups.
Di oda structural fact wey balance am na ìlémọ̀sú. Woman get lineage wey get duty to receive am back. To leave cost money but e possible.
Di evidence wey useful pass for dis whole matter come from native court records, because dem document wetin people actually do instead of wetin informants talk say custom be, and wetin dem discover clear well-well.
Morenikeji Asaaju study of di Abẹ́òkúta native courts from 1905 to 1945 find out say di courts, instead of to dey give rigid judgement about wetin be proper marriage, "provided maneuverability, specifically for women to negotiate and contest marital status and relations" People wey dey drag matter including husbands, wives, lovers and extended family use di courts for marriage, divorce, seduction, adultery and child custody, and dat period na time wey wetin marriage mean, marital rights and sexual access to wives dey change by itself .
Many hundreds of women for colonial Abẹ́òkúta start divorce case against husbands wey many times still be their masters . Dat last part dey very important: twentieth-century Abẹ́òkúta divorce record join together with wetin happen after slavery, and some of di women wey go court dey challenge status wey start as slavery wey dem come change to marriage.
Di general pattern across colonial West Africa, wey dis Yoruba example join, na say women use native courts well-well and with good result, and dem use am leave marriage at rates wey shock both colonial officials and male elders. Di reason na structural: native court na place wey woman fit reach by herself, without her lineage support, and e dey give judgment wey dem fit enforce.
Colonial courts still bring out settlement on matrimonial property wey go di opposite direction. Wetin dey legal literature show say colonial courts conclude say women matrimonial property rights dey inside their husband own, wey come produce official customary law where woman dey leave marriage with only her clothes and her cooking utensils .
Hold di two facts. Di same court system give Yoruba women way wey dem fit use leave marriage, and dem still make property rule wey make leaving cost money. None of di two fit describe di colonial legal experience by itself.
She enter her husband compound as outsider, junior to everybody wey dem born inside am including di daughters. She keep her own business, her own capital and her own creditors. She drag her husband resources with her co-wives for her own children sake, inside system where inheritance rule make di number of her co-wives matter pass di number of her children for di share wey her children go get. She no fit inherit from her husband. She fit inherit from her papa, on equal terms with her brothers. She get lineage wey get duty to take am back, and by twentieth century, she get court wey she fit reach without them. Di picture say she be subordinated wife or di picture say she be autonomous trader, none of dem complete on their own; she be di two at di same time, and di two positions stand inside different institutions.
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